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Post by NASH7777 on Sept 16, 2005 8:01:03 GMT -5
Yesterday I lost two of my classmates. It was almost 3. Two of them drown after their car went into the river. I've been really distraught the last 16 hours, crying with classmates. We all had a sleep over at one girl's house. There were 20 of us in the class and we were all so close being that it was a small class. Now there's 18 of us. I live in a small community where everybody knows everybody and it's hit us hard. I may be out of it the next few days, it's gunna be hard enough going through classes and seeing the empty spots. They were both top students and top athletes, I ask myself why those two but its not like i would want it anyone else either...
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Post by Rodak on Sept 16, 2005 16:28:18 GMT -5
I know what it is to lose loved ones.
It can be the most difficult part of life.
There is nothing I can say that might comfort you, but I offer condolences.
My only advice is to stay around those friends you mentioned and try to support each other.
And, of course
Peace.
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Post by Bigfoot on Sept 16, 2005 16:36:42 GMT -5
I am terribly sorry to hear about this. Losing poeple is very hard to deal with, something I cant deal with either. But heads up, death is just a part of life we all cant escape. But man it can be a bitch. I wish you my best, take it easy for a while.
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Post by Doan the Nado on Sept 19, 2005 21:35:02 GMT -5
I went to a small school, too (still 4 times bigger than yours), and we had 2 people die in a car accident. A couple years later, one of my better friends died in a drunk driving accident, along with the driver. The best way I found to get through it was to remember them, cry it all out with others who admired them, too. Time makes things fade away, and while that may be sad in itself, it is also a good thing. You will certainly continue to be reminded of them for years to come, but in time, it will be fond memories, and not of the sadness that is so apparent right now.
Best of wishes to you and your friends.
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Post by NASH7777 on Sept 19, 2005 21:58:24 GMT -5
Thanks guys, I had a funeral today and got out of school (well basically there was no school). Then I just got back from a prayer service tonight and have another funeral and no school really tomorrow. It's really tough and I've hugged and been hugged more times in the last few days then in my entire life I think. I sometimes think adults are extremely retarded. I wish the counselors would quit harassing us, we all do. They didn't know the ppl, they can just drive their 90 miles back to where the heck ever. I'ld rather talk to it with my friends and cry and be together. I've seen everyone in my class cry now, i'm really glad we're so close. When your in almost every class 5 days a week for the last how many years with the same 20-some , you form a bond that's pretty stong with each other. So peace, I love and appreciate ya guys, nonalkkoon("bye" in Theta) until later, Brock "Neo" Nash P.S. One of the girls who died always called me "neo", after she died and another friend called me it I totally broke down, never gunna hear it from her again  |
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Post by DarkHorizons on Sept 20, 2005 1:38:42 GMT -5
Sorry to hear about your loss...
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Post by Neo Samurai on Sept 25, 2005 20:02:55 GMT -5
Hey, Nash. I'm sorry to hear about the deaths of your 2 friends. Reading this has helped me to cherish my friends even more.
I really haven't lost too many friends or family during my life, but I know how much it must hurt. Just hang in there. They may be dead, but the memory of them will live on with you.
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